So you like me...

A woman's heart should be so lost in God that a man needs to seek Him in order to find her.

- A concept that nobody ever seems to get. The only way to my heart is through Him because my life is not my own. I belong to Him, and any interested person has to have His approval and blessing. Pursing me will get them nowhere - because I don't make the decisions.

I liken it to a Dad giving His approval in the days when marriages were arranged. The dad was always the one to have the final say and I am sure the "suitor" did everything he could to prove his worth. I guess guys today struggle with this (well first off because none of them have a clue who He is) because it seems so outdated and old fashioned.

It doesn't take much to impress me - my approval means nothing. I am waiting for the go ahead. Anyone who wants me - needs to first get His approval. I am easy to convince after that.

It's painful to me because many have tried to prove their love and find God but their efforts have been for my sake. They haven't treated my God (Father) like he is a real person just an afterthought. They liked the idea of me, but weren't willing to commit. In my weak mindedness, I thought maybe I was imagining this. I fell for them, but found their relationship with the most important thing in my life to be non existent. I allowed it so it was my fault, but the deception hurt nontheless.

What I am looking for:
1) Someone who loves God more than me and has a personal relationship with Him.
2) Someone who loves me a whole heck of a lot.

I realize such a man is rare and I am just waiting for the one who understands. I won't and can't settle for any less because like I said - it isn't my decision.


-Abigail